Dating Advice - Pushing the Boundaries

What do you want out of your sex life?

Many people are happy with a one-on-one relationship, be it heterosexual, homosexual, lesbian or bisexual. We are all different.

Here are some tips for anyone wanting sex with couples, threesomes, group sex, gay sex or any other specialist "activities".

Think through the implications of what could happen. We all fantasise about certain things, but in reality would it work? Some people are happy just to keep it as a fantasy, and keep it as online "dirty" chat. It's a fact that only a minority of people actually go through with it if it involves more than one other person. However it can work and can be very satisfying, but quite often a typical loving couple can shatter their intimate relationship by involving a third party. It can bring out feelings of rejection, jealousy, mistrust and insecurity. It depends on your attitude and passion levels.

So it's better and less risky if you're a single person, joining in rather than a couple trying it out with a single third (or fourth) person. Couples should talk it through and only try it if you are BOTH and ALL keen, or willing to risk damaging your relationship.

Activities like cross dressing, role playing, gay and lesbian sex, bondage, fetishes etc. are fine for consenting adults, so long as they agree to it.

Online dating is probably the best way to get in touch with others wanting to try specific types of relationship. Don't be afraid to include in your profile your innermost desires and you'll attract other people with similar interests.

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