Dating Advice - Compatibility

It's a fact you’re only likely to be truly compatible with 1% of people.

So the more people you get to meet the better your chance could be to find a compatible and happier relationship.

You can find out a lot about potential partners you hook up with online, but it's never the same as meeting someone "in the flesh". You should approach Online Dating as Step ONE.

Treat it like you're buying a used car from a private seller (don't let on to your potential partner though about this approach). Find the answers to all those questions before you travel miles to "view". What a waste it would be to find out the model was 10 years older than you'd expected, and slightly worn, or in need of a good service.

Ask the right questions, but not in the style of Anne Robinson. Create a nice relaxing atmosphere with a bit of humour, banter and flattery. Make yourself (rather than your partner) the object of any funny or cheeky remarks though, so you don't offend them.

Many people fall into the trap of hooking up with one of the first people they meet on date69. Get yourself about a bit. Make contact with as many people as you can. Don't always go for "looks" alone, as seen on their photo - beauty is more than skin deep. Get to know as many people as you can. If you feel you have too little compatability with someone, move on politely to someone else. Online dating has the benefit of giving you an anonymous ticket to "play the field" while not being promiscuous.

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